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Peer Pressure & Social Life

Navigating social situations with confidence

Handling Peer Pressure

Food and Eating Situations

  • Have responses ready: "I need to check my blood sugar first" or "I'm managing my levels right now"
  • Don't feel pressured to explain in detail - a simple "health reasons" is enough
  • Bring your own snacks to share that fit your management plan
  • Find friends who support your needs without making a big deal

Activity Pressure

  • It's okay to say no to activities if you're not feeling well or your blood sugar isn't stable
  • Suggest alternative activities that work better for you
  • Keep fast-acting glucose with you always - no exceptions
  • Let at least one trusted friend know about your T1D in every social group

Dating and Relationships

When to Share About T1D

  • Share when you feel comfortable - there's no "right" timeline
  • Consider sharing before activities where they might notice (checking blood sugar, wearing devices)
  • Frame it casually: "I have T1D, which means..." - normalize it
  • Gauge their response - someone who supports you is worth your time

Practical Dating Tips

  • Always have glucose tabs in your pocket or bag
  • Check your blood sugar before and after activities
  • Choose date activities where you can manage your T1D comfortably
  • Teach your partner the basics - they'll want to support you
  • Don't skip meals or insulin to avoid attention - your health comes first

Party Safety & Alcohol Awareness

Party Preparation

  • Eat before parties - never go on an empty stomach
  • Tell at least one trusted friend about your T1D and what to do in emergencies
  • Keep glucose tabs and your phone charged and with you at all times
  • Set reminders to check your blood sugar throughout the event
  • Have a safe ride home arranged in advance

Alcohol and T1D (Important Safety Info)

  • Alcohol can cause dangerous low blood sugar hours after drinking
  • If you choose to drink (only if of legal age): never drink on an empty stomach
  • Check blood sugar frequently - before, during, and after
  • Wear medical ID at all times - low blood sugar can look like intoxication
  • Never drink alone - always have someone who knows about your T1D with you
  • Talk to your healthcare team about alcohol and T1D management

Building Confidence in Social Settings

Confidence-Building Strategies

  • Practice explaining T1D in a mirror or with family - find what feels natural
  • Manage your T1D openly - checking blood sugar shouldn't be hidden
  • Find role models - other teens with T1D living full social lives
  • Focus on what you CAN do, not limitations
  • Remember: true friends will support you, not judge you

Handling Questions and Comments

  • "Can you eat that?" → "Yes, I just need to count the carbs"
  • "Did you get it from eating too much sugar?" → "No, it's an autoimmune condition"
  • "Will you grow out of it?" → "No, Type 1 is lifelong, but very manageable"
  • Have simple, confident responses ready for common questions
  • It's okay to say "I'd rather not talk about it right now"

Educating Friends About T1D

What to Teach Your Friends

  • Basic signs of low blood sugar: shaky, sweaty, confused, irritable
  • What to do if you're low: help you get fast-acting sugar, don't leave you alone
  • That you can eat anything - you just need to manage insulin
  • How to call 911 if needed and what information to provide
  • Where you keep emergency supplies

Making It Easy for Friends

  • Show them your CGM app if you're comfortable - let them see your numbers
  • Be matter-of-fact about management - if you're comfortable, they will be too
  • Thank them for asking questions and being supportive
  • Correct misconceptions gently - they want to understand
  • Let them know how they can best support you